This past Sunday, November 4, The Boyfriend and I competed
in his first half marathon – my thirtieth.
He lived out in the Los Angeles area for ten years and his family is
still calling it home. So, we decided to
venture out for a quick visit, have our first real vacation together, and
participate in a race while we were out there.
We found that the Santa Clarita Half Marathon (HERE) was running right
in Valencia, where his family lives – the race actually went right through
their back yard. We arrived
late-Saturday afternoon – missing packet pick-up. So, his stepmom was nice enough to venture
out to her first race expo and pick up our nicely fit technical tees (different
fit for men and women), swag bag and race posters.
This would be the seventeenth year running of the Santa
Clarita Marathon and Half Marathon. This
was the first year they would be using the newly open trails along the San
Francisquito Creek. Paved miles of path
through the valley, surrounded by miles of white fencing and mountains.
With a two hour time difference – and then the time change
with daylight savings ending – we were a little off with our sleep. We went to bed early and woke up at 5:30 –
with plans to head out by 6:15 for the 7:00 start. We went out to the kitchen and had a huge
“runner’s breakfast” waiting for us. His
step mom had laid everything out that would keep us carb-loaded and hydrated
for the morning. All of the fun notes –
including on the clock, due to the time change that was making us nervous about waking up too early or too late – made us laugh and even more excited about the
race. We ate, got ready and headed down
to the startline. The Boyfriend had a
taste of pre-race jitters, when he forgot his gum at home. So, we stopped at a gas station quick – so
that he could keep his mouth from getting dry – and his nerves at bay.
We started our 13.1 mile journey together - in a sea of
marathoners, half marathoners and 5K runners.
It was crowded. A nice-sized
event – a few thousand. A group of four young
ladies sang the National Anthem beautifully and we were off. We darted along the right side of the street,
so that The Boyfriend’s dad could snap photos.
Trying to get to the startline, The Boyfriend suddenly tugged me towards
the center of the group. Huh??!! I looked down and there were groups of
balloons, corralling runners to the center of the road, across the start line …
and the mat. I totally would’ve missed
it … and my chip wouldn’t have started.
Many, many, MANY runners must have missed this … because the results say
that there were 383 full marathon participants; 1265 half marathoners. Based on previous years’ attendance, there
were surely more participants in both events.
And I know that the crowds were much more.
The plan: to start
together – to finish together. This was
his first half, but I knew that he has more speed than I. We both hoped to finish around two
hours.
We headed up a large hill – some people were already walking. I was confused. We stayed together, along the route, darting
people and maneuvering our way through the large clusters of runners and
informal pace groups that were forming.
What goes up, must go down – and it did.
We headed down the hill and all I could see was mountains surrounding
me. Awesome – I was running near
mountains! First time ever. The first mile was slow, due to the
crowds. The second mile seemed much
faster and the third even quicker. My
right ankle was bugging me and I had to complain once. The first few water stations only had water,
so I didn’t stop. I sipped out of my handheld water bottle. Later, I ended up taking lemon-lime
(dislike!) Gatorade at each water station.
But it helped me. Around mile
four, my tummy started acting up. I
could tell I’ve gained some weight in the post-marathon (lack of) running I’ve been doing. And, that all of the mini candy bars I’ve
been swiping since Halloween were slowing me down. Not good.
I instantly regretted every bite I took.
Note to self. Note to self. Note
to self.
The Boyfriend was naturally running slightly in front of
me. His sweet-self would then look back
and run back or slow down, to stay with me.
He had much more in the tank than I did.
I attempted to push myself, in order to keep up with him. We were moving
at a decent clip as we zig-zagged oddly through a rental complex and then onto
some path and then to a business park.
My tummy and my nose did not like the smell of pizza at a local bakery
in the industrial park. I was slowing
down … but we were still keeping a great pace of 8:42 min/mile pace - at mile
5.5 we were at 47:46.
Around mile 6, we headed out on the beautiful trail and were
ahead of the 4:00 full marathon pacer. I
knew his family’s home was ahead and so would our spectators. We stuck together as I expressed my gut ache
and slowed down. They snapped some
photos and cheered us on. Soon after 7.5
miles, the 4:00 pacer passed us, with their orange balloons floating
above. I saw them going, going, gone …
and I couldn’t keep up. I told him to go
– go get that sub-2:00 half. I didn’t
want to be selfish and keep him from his goals.
That was completely unfair of me – even if I had dreams of crossing the
finish line together – holding our hands, clasped in the air – smiles on our
faces, as the clock read 1:59-and some change.
Not fair at all. I’ve learned
anything about my running journey – it’s that each journey is our own. Mine is mine.
His is his. And, if I’ve learned
anything about relationships – it’s that compromise and support mean everything. There is no room for selfishness. He asked me about a half dozen times if I was
sure and then went on – after those orange balloons.
Oddly, over the next mile I readjusted my attitude on the
race, as well as my pace. I slowed
down. I took some deep breaths. I played “California Love” three times in a
row – because, well, I was in California people! I looked at the gorgeous California scenery,
the mountains, the beautiful path I was running on. And you know what??!! I suddenly felt better. And my paced increased and continued to
increase. At mile 9 I felt great as we
headed in the opposite direction. I saw
the family on the bridge overhead as I got “intense” and wanted to finish
strong – instead of slacking off like I usually do. I was picking up lots of time and cranking
the tunes. I got some great comments on
my yellow socks and was actually starting to pass people – instead of them
passing me. Many runners were walking as
it was really warm (in the 90’s that afternoon).
With a half mile to go, I saw a young gal walking and
holding her sides. I tapped her on the
shoulder and said “Come on – we’ll finish together”. And she started running again as we took a
turn and crossed the bridge. “Over the
river and through the woods to the finish line, right?”, she said. I asked her where she was from and she said
far away … doubt she was as far as me!! I told her I was from Wisconsin and she
nodded – I don’t think she had any clue where that was! She told me this was her fifth half marathon
and we were going to finish this together.
We saw the crowd at the finish line and I encouraged her to pick up the
pace and that you should always finish with a smile on your face. We turned the corner and raced to the finish
line with smiles on our faces. We
crossed the finish line in 2:02:13 – a 9:20 pace. Not my best – but not my worst. We finished with one high five, and then
another.
The Boyfriend ended up finishing in 1:56:45. I can only imagine what he had done, if he
hadn’t stuck with me the first 7.5 miles!
He came in 270/655 in his age group and 364/1265 overall. And, he says he never hit a wall or
struggled. First half marathon. Amazing.
I ended up not finishing too bad myself. Love our matching medals.
2:02:13
494 / 1265 Overall
151 / 610 Females
31 / 91 Age Group (30-34F)
494 / 1265 Overall
151 / 610 Females
31 / 91 Age Group (30-34F)
Well done both of you that is fantastic. I love the words "each journey is our own" totally agree :-)
ReplyDeleteCongrats on a great race - I'd love to run near the mountains! Wish you could have been in Lake Mills, but we'll make up for it in Kenosha! :)
ReplyDeleteCongrat to you both. And for the realization that being together means sometimes letting each other go. We each have our own race.
ReplyDeletecongrats
ReplyDeletegreat way to let each of you experience your own journey to the finish,and way to encourage the woman you crossed the line with
you rock
:D
Congratulations to you both on such a great race! And I just want to add that you take the most amazing race photos! I always look ill in mine!! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat job! My husband runs with me and I always wonder how he'd do if I didn't pull him back! I think I should let him fly next year!
ReplyDeleteYou look fabulous in those pictures! I had the same thought about halloween candy in my race today. I should have laid off the kit kats.:(
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